Revised: It was a learning experience at the time, but he couldn't give me what I needed.
Original: Randy abandoned me and I loved him
Revised: Randy did me a favor and let me go so I'd move on.
Original: Charles stopped being my friend after I felt him up while asleep.
Revised: It was a gradual process, but Charles flirted with me and I responded. Friendship isn't forever.
Original: I've come to realize just how selfish people can be...
Revised: Maybe its time I should be too.